Support for node22 native websockets

[zoe-codez]

🪤 Context

Want to move ws to an optional dependency (required for node20)

https://nodejs.org/docs/latest/api/http.html#websocket

📬 Caveats

Emphasis on non-breaking changes for this, there's no major benefit to force migrating everyone at this time.
A deprecation warning can be added in the future for node20, but intend to support both for a while as part of this

🩻 Additional details

The websocket appears to be the only feature to actively attempt to take advantage of as part of the 22 upgrade