Proper generic setup for clustered application

[sajjadhs]

Can we get a proper setup for a Orleans cluster with memory streaming(to remove any latency layer), I added a use case:

• Hosted by Kubernetes
• 20k activations might be needed for one-grain type.
• Streaming is needed, one producer(all grains will call one producer grain to write into stream)
• Frequent app updates will be delivered by the RollingUpdate deployment approach (no downtime, no errors expected with orleans)

This looks to be simple at first glance, but I have encountered too much hassle with

• Orleans streams due to delays in writing into streams,
• QueueCacheMissException
• SIlos dying or silo not found in directory