Switch to Node.js 16 compatible action

[williamfgc]

Proposed changes

Current GitHub Action for self-hosted runners doesn't work with node.js 12 triggering a spurious message on ornl CI.
Node.js 12 support was deprecated last year.
This is PR upgrade the problem with a compatible action with the same functionality.
It needs to be merged first in order to be tested.

What type(s) of changes does this code introduce?

Delete the items that do not apply

• Testing changes (e.g. new unit/integration/performance tests)

Does this introduce a breaking change?

• No

What systems has this change been tested on?

N/A

Checklist

• Yes. This PR is up to date with current the current state of 'develop'
• No. Code added or changed in the PR has been clang-formatted
• No. This PR adds tests to cover any new code, or to catch a bug that is being fixed
• No. Documentation has been added (if appropriate)

[ye-luo]

Test this please

[ye-luo]

@williamfgc Did you see the issue being resolved in the CI of #4898?

[williamfgc]

@ye-luo yes, it's resolved. PR #4898 ornl CI doesn't show the warnings at the bottom of this PR ornl CI. Thanks for checking.