Migrate to pyproject.toml, update components and support

[nezhar]

Aligns python-param-parser with the current Anexia Python library setup.

• Packaging — replaces setup.py and requirements.txt with a PEP 621 pyproject.toml, using setuptools_scm for versioning and test / dev / build extras for dependencies.
• CI — updates the GitHub Actions to current major versions, moves the test matrix to Python 3.10–3.14 (drops 3.9), and builds releases with python -m build.
• Linting — adds a .pre-commit-config.yaml running ruff and ruff-format alongside pyupgrade, add-trailing-comma and whitespace hooks, replacing flake8 and black.
• Housekeeping — adds SECURITY.md and tests/init.py, and refreshes the LICENSE copyright line.