add support for instance checks on dataset wrappers #507

Job	Run time
linux (linux.12xlarge, cpu) / linux-job	3m 37s
linux (linux.g5.4xlarge.nvidia.gpu, cuda, 11.8) / linux-job	8m 57s
macos (macos-m1-12) / macos-job	3m 22s
macos (macos-12) / macos-job	13m 10s
windows (windows.4xlarge, cpu) / windows-job	12m 8s
windows (windows.g5.4xlarge.nvidia.gpu, cuda, 11.8) / windows-job	11m 5s
	52m 19s

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