fix(release): align bundled CLI version with wheels

[ousugo]

Summary

• pass the published release tag into the reusable distribution workflow
• configure one validated version for Python packages and the bundled Rust CLI while preserving SCM-derived development versions for manual builds
• verify installed wheel metadata, openviking.__version__, and the bundled CLI version on every wheel platform
• allow ov --version and ov -V to run before first-use language configuration

Root cause

The release workflow resolved the Rust CLI version after dependency setup had made the checkout dirty, but built Python wheel metadata after cleaning the checkout. The two build stages therefore derived different versions from the same release commit.

Validation

• actionlint .github/workflows/_build.yml .github/workflows/release.yml
• python -m pytest -o addopts= tests/misc/test_release_tag_selection.py -q
• cargo test -p ov_cli tests::version_flags_render_before_language_setup -- --exact --nocapture
• cargo build --release -p ov_cli
• fresh configuration: target/release/ov.exe --version outputs openviking 0.4.16
• git diff --check upstream/main

Closes #4208